Rebekah Blocher

 

I LOVE to read! My husband cleaned out my car once and found 13 books. I usually have 2 or 3 going at once with a backup list after that and an audio book in the CD player. Right now I am reading Start Something that Matters by Blake Mycoskie (founder of TOMS shoes), Message from an Unknown Chinese Mother by Xue Xinran, Among the Betrayed by Margaret Peterson Haddix, Heaven by Randy Alcorn, and listening to And Then They Came For Me by Maziar Bahari. I get most of my books from the library, but every now and then I find one that I know I am going to want to mark up and underline in so I splurge a little. I feel like I learn more from them that way, but then they end up sitting on a shelf forever. So I thought it might be fun to start doing small book reviews on my blog and then give them away. I will be happy to send my used copy to the first person to show interest. Just be the first to make a comment on the blog and send your address to me at hello@rebekahblocher.net. And I would love to hear your feedback after you read it! One book per person please, 18 and up (unless it's YA) and no mailing them internationally. So here is the first one...

I just finished this fantastic book called Growing Grateful Kids by Susie Larson, but I think a better title would have been Becoming a Grateful Person. It was one of those books I decided to read slowly so I could soak it up. It was so convicting in an "Aaah I really needed that" sort of way. Every single chapter had something so good that I decide to make a list of all the quotes that stood out to me and put it up in my bedroom. The quote, though, that summarizes the central idea is...


"What's the best thing you can do for them (your children)? Be serious about your own relationship with Jesus. You love them best when you love Him most" Page 45

The best way to teach gratefulness is to simply BE grateful. But being grateful isn't always simple. You have to constantly guard your heart from things like pride and discontent. The table of contents alone in this book create a meaningful list of what it takes to develop heart that puts the focus on God as the one who meets all our needs and helps us see ourselves rightly as undeserving receivers of all His goodness.


One thing I loved about this book is that at the end of each chapter Larson gives several ideas for personal application and parental application. One of her ideas at the end of the chapter called Embrace Contentment was to create a gratitude journal and write notes in it often. I love this idea and found tons of cute samples on Pinterest.

Peyton's Gratitude Journal

So I got my son busy making one and I am going to make one too. I want to re-train myself to recognize blessings and not take things for granted. It has started several good discussions between us and we looked up some good verses on giving that we have decided to memorize. I want my kids to be able to find happiness in small things and not feel entitled to have every new thing that comes out on the market. I hope they grow up to be adults who are able to live simply and humbly consider the needs of others before themselves. I want them to enjoy giving freely and radically because they know they have already been given so much by God and that He loves them and has promised to meet their needs. To do that they need to see me tell myself no more often to things I may want but don't need and hear me voice out loud the things that I am thankful for. This one page in the book really stood out to me...here's a little excerpt from the Live Humbly chapter (pg. 110)

If our kids see

us shaking our fist at people more than they see us praying for them

They'll learn

that people shouldn't get in the way of what we want. That's pride.

If our kids see

us responding humbly to the rude person in line at the grocery store

They'll learn

that we are alive to reflect the character of Christ. That's humility.

 If our kids see

us dissecting other people's flaws more than they hear us honoring them in their absence

They'll aquire

an exaggerated view of their own importance and the idea that it's okay to gossip. That's pride.

If our kids see

us speaking well of others, giving people the benefit of the doubt, and believing the best about other's motives.

They'll learn

not to be quick to judge or to assign motives; they'll learn to believe and hope for the best in others. That's humility.

If our kids see

us striving and straining in our own strength and neglecting to give Jesus the credit He deserves

They'll learn

that more rest on our shoulders than on His. They'll come to believe that they are stronger than they really are (and that God is weak in some way). That's pride.

There's another page of this in the book and it's really good but I don't want this to go too long. So I will wrap it up with 3 last quotes from Larson..

"You cannot impart what you do not possess." (pg.16)
"God's promises are almost always linked with our obedience." (pg.42)
"When our strength is unequal to the task, we see the strength of God come to bear in our lives" (pg. 28)

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